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Ask a Death Doula Podcast is a weekly show hosted by Hospice and Oncology nurse Suzanne B. O’Brien. Suzanne is the CEO and founder of International Doulagivers Institute. This is a vital platform for discussions and interviews that will bring back death into the natural fold of life. Ask a Death Doula will share vital education on how to care for those who are dying as well as sharing inspiring stories from working at the bedside with over 1000 dying people from all around the world. Please visit www.doulagivers.com to access our free education and resource center. About International Doulagivers Institute: The goal of Doulagivers Institute is simple and powerful - to provide affordable and accessible education and support to everyone in the world so that every person has the opportunity to die with comfort and dignity in their own home. Death is something that we all have in common no matter our race, religion, or socioeconomic status. We believe that this education to support people to have the most positive end of life experience is a human right, not a privilege.
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In this special episode, Suzanne O’Brien, RN, founder of Doulagivers Institute and former oncology and hospice nurse, celebrates the one-year anniversary of her book The Good Death: A Guide for Supporting Your Loved One Through the End of Life.
After caring for more than 1,000 people at the bedside, Suzanne witnessed how much fear and confusion families experience simply because they were never taught what to expect during the end-of-life process.
Just 100 years ago, families knew how to care for loved ones at the end of life. Today, much of that knowledge has been lost. This episode explores how education, compassion, and open conversations can help us bring this sacred knowledge back.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
• Why understanding death can help us live more meaningful lives
• What inspired Suzanne to write The Good Death
• Lessons learned from caring for over 1,000 people at the end of life
• Why end-of-life education is urgently needed today
• How individuals and communities can help shift the culture around death and dying
March Madness: End-of-Life Edition Events
Goodreads Giveaway
To celebrate the first anniversary of The Good Death, we are giving away 10 signed copies of the book.
Enter the giveaway here
https://www.goodreads.com/
Host Your Own Good Death Book Club or Death & Dying Course
We are inviting people around the world to host their own Good Death Book Clubs or community Death & Dying courses based on Suzanne’s book.
Information Zoom
March 18
7:00 PM Eastern
Save your seat here
https://doulagivers.zoom.us/meeting/register/qKEjSnH0Rres4rUyyPI27A
During this session you will learn how to host a Good Death Book Club, facilitate meaningful conversations about death and dying, and bring end-of-life education to libraries, community groups, and spiritual centers.
The Good Death Review Party
March 31
Join us for a live celebration and review party to help more people discover The Good Death.
During this event we will celebrate the book’s first anniversary, write reviews together, share stories and reflections, and give away special gifts and merchandise.
Join here
https://doulagivers.zoom.us/meeting/register/TK8u8DW2QzyYQ_LpwRxSQg
Why This Conversation Matters
Every single one of us will experience end-of-life, either personally or with someone we love. Yet most families enter this sacred time without guidance or education.
When we bring back the knowledge of how to care for someone at the end of life, fear decreases, connection deepens, and love leads the way.
Death returns to being the natural and sacred experience it was always meant to be.
Resources
Learn more about Doulagivers Institute
https://doulagivers.com
Get The Good Death
https://thegooddeathbook.com
Register for the next Free Doulagivers Family Caregiver Training
https://event.webinarjam.com/4kv5v/register/6rv9vhm?webinar_id=20
Join the upcoming FREE Doulagivers Level 1 End of Life Doula and Family Caregiver Training Webinar here Join us at Life Café here Register to join us for FREE: THE GOOD DEATH BOOK CLUB EXPERIENCE: 12 MONTH FREE DEATH AND DYING COURSE Or visit our website here!
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Tuesday Mar 03, 2026
Tuesday Mar 03, 2026
What if the secret to a happier life isn’t positive thinking — but remembering that life is finite?
After caring for more than 1,000 people at the end of life, Suzanne B. O’Brien, RN discovered a profound truth: awareness of death doesn’t create fear — it creates gratitude.
Recently quoted by The New York Times on happiness, Suzanne shares how working with dying patients transformed her life. What once felt like obligation — “I have to” — became privilege — “I get to.” Even ordinary moments began to feel extraordinary.
In this episode, she explores how consciously acknowledging mortality awakens presence, clarity, gratitude, and deeper life meaning. She also reflects on research highlighted by The Washington Post showing that healthy mortality awareness can actually increase happiness and life satisfaction.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
• Why death awareness increases gratitude instead of anxiety
• The most common regret of the dying
• How shifting from “have to” → “get to” changes everything
• The science behind mortality awareness and meaning
• A simple daily reframing practice to start today
After sitting bedside with thousands in their final days, Suzanne noticed a powerful pattern:
No one wished they had worked more or worried more.
They wished they had lived more fully, loved more openly, and been more present.
Death is not the enemy.
It is the great teacher of how to live.
Because when we understand death,
we finally understand life.
Join the upcoming FREE Doulagivers Level 1 End of Life Doula and Family Caregiver Training Webinar here Join us at Life Café here Register to join us for FREE: THE GOOD DEATH BOOK CLUB EXPERIENCE: 12 MONTH FREE DEATH AND DYING COURSE Or visit our website here! Please Share! Share this episode and invite them to join this sacred and supportive experience.
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Tuesday Feb 24, 2026
Tuesday Feb 24, 2026
What if one question could change everything about how you die?
In this powerful episode, Suzanne shares a pivotal moment from her early days as an oncology nurse that transformed her understanding of end-of-life care. At the heart of this story is the one question that becomes the foundation for all future medical decisions:
What does quality of life mean to you — and when would you consider it no longer acceptable?
Without this conversation, the system is designed to keep treating — even when it no longer aligns with what matters most.With it, care becomes aligned, peaceful, and intentional.
You’ll learn why most end-of-life suffering comes from lack of planning, how fear drives crisis decisions, the difference between hope and false hope, and why defining your quality-of-life benchmark is one of the greatest gifts you can give your family.
A good death doesn’t begin in the final days — it begins the moment you choose how you want to live.
Join the upcoming FREE Doulagivers Level 1 End of Life Doula and Family Caregiver Training Webinar here Register to join us for FREE: THE GOOD DEATH BOOK CLUB EXPERIENCE: 12 MONTH FREE DEATH AND DYING COURSE Or visit our website here! Please Share! Share this episode and invite them to join this sacred and supportive experience.
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Tuesday Feb 17, 2026
Tuesday Feb 17, 2026
Can learning about death actually heal grief?
In this deeply moving episode from The Good Death virtual book tour, Suzanne B. O’Brien, RN, sits down with award-winning filmmaker and death educator Johanna J. Lunn, co-founder of The When You Die Project.
After experiencing multiple profound losses early in life, Johanna was unexpectedly guided toward a life devoted to exploring death, grief, and consciousness through film and community dialogue. What she discovered is transformative:
education about death doesn’t increase fear — it dissolves it.
Together, Suzanne and Johanna explore how understanding what truly happens at the end of life can soften grief, awaken spiritual insight, and reconnect us to the essence of who we are.
In this episode, they discuss:
• Why avoiding conversations about death amplifies suffering
• How awareness brings peace instead of fear
• Lessons from those at the end of life
• The continuity of love and consciousness
• Grief as a doorway to awakening
This conversation is for anyone who is grieving, fears death, or feels there is something more to this human experience.
Because when we understand death…
we begin to truly understand life.
Johanna J. Lunn is an award-winning filmmaker and co-founder of The When You Die Project, a Canadian initiative dedicated to fostering conversations and education about death and dying through film and community engagement. Through documentary storytelling and public dialogue, her work explores mortality, grief, meaning, and the profound spiritual dimensions of the human journey. Website here: https://whenyoudie.org
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Tuesday Feb 10, 2026
Tuesday Feb 10, 2026
Closing Thought: Join the upcoming FREE Doulagivers Level 1 End of Life Doula and Family Caregiver Training Webinar here Register to join us for FREE: THE GOOD DEATH BOOK CLUB EXPERIENCE: 12 MONTH FREE DEATH AND DYING COURSE Or visit our website here! Please Share! Share this episode and invite them to join this sacred and supportive experience.
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Tuesday Feb 03, 2026
Tuesday Feb 03, 2026
In this episode, Suzanne O’Brien reflects on the first anniversary of The Good Death and the simple intention behind the book: to soften fear, open conversations, and remind us that death can be sacred and peaceful when we plan ahead. After hearing from caregivers, nurses, doctors, and families whose lives were changed by the book, Suzanne invites listeners to leave a heartfelt review—because reviews are how this message reaches people before crisis, supports overwhelmed caregivers, and helps families discover another way to walk the end-of-life journey.
Join the upcoming FREE Doulagivers Level 1 End of Life Doula and Family Caregiver Training Webinar here
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Tuesday Jan 27, 2026
Tuesday Jan 27, 2026
In this episode, Suzanne shares her guiding model, Serve & Assist, and why it’s essential for heart-centered death doulas and caregivers today. Learn how serving your community first—through education and presence—creates trust, impact, and a sustainable practice without pressure or hustle.
Suzanne explains why 80–90% of a positive end-of-life experience comes from planning ahead and how this work can bring both purpose and fulfillment.
If you want to make a real difference while staying in integrity with your heart, this episode is for you.
Join the upcoming FREE Doulagivers Level 1 End of Life Doula and Family Caregiver Training Webinar here
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Tuesday Jan 20, 2026
Tuesday Jan 20, 2026
Are Men and Veterans Being Left Alone in Grief and at the End of Life?
Or Are We Asking Them to Carry Their Pain in Silence?
There is a quiet truth in end-of-life care that is rarely spoken about: many men—and especially veterans—carry grief, trauma, and emotional pain without support. In this episode of Ask a Death Doula, Suzanne O’Brien, RN—founder of Doulagivers Institute—is joined by end-of-life doula Adam Daviau for an honest, compassionate conversation about grief, presence, and dignity at the end of life.
🔗 Connect with Adam Daviau:
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beautifulexistencedoulaservices
- Website: Here
Join the upcoming FREE Doulagivers Level 1 End of Life Doula and Family Caregiver Training Webinar here
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Tuesday Jan 13, 2026
Tuesday Jan 13, 2026
Is End-of-Life Pain Really Being Managed?
Or Are Families Being Asked to Do the Impossible Without Training?
There is a quiet truth in end-of-life care that many families discover too late: pain is often misunderstood, mismanaged, or missed entirely. In this episode of Ask a Death Doula, Suzanne O’Brien, RN—founder of Doulagivers Institute—speaks with honesty, clarity, and deep compassion about pain management at the end of life and what family caregivers truly need to know. This is not about blame. It is about education, empowerment, and dignity.
Join the upcoming FREE Doulagivers Level 1 End of Life Doula and Family Caregiver Training Webinar here
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Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
In this episode of Ask a Death Doula, Suzanne O’Brien shares a heartfelt reflection on this moment in humanity—and a special announcement:
Doulagivers Life Café is now meeting weekly, live, free, and globally. Life Café was born during the COVID pandemic as a sanctuary when fear and isolation were overwhelming. Today, it returns weekly as a space to pause, breathe, and remember our shared humanity. This is not about doing more. It’s about being. And choosing love over fear.
🌍 In This Episode, You’ll Hear About:
• Why most end-of-life experiences are harder than they need to be
• How death becomes one of our greatest teachers about life
• The difference between human ego energy and being/heart energy
• How fear impacts the nervous system and keeps us disconnected
• Why Life Café was created—and why it’s now weekly
💛 The Heart of This Episode Every day, we are being asked to choose: love or fear. When we choose love, we come back into coherence—with ourselves, with others, and with life itself.
🗓️ LIFE CAFÉ (WEEKLY)
Every Wednesday 12:00–1:00 PM Eastern Time
Live on Zoom | Free | Global
Life Café is a place to simply show up—in presence, compassion, and non-judgment. Each gathering closes with a global meditation and prayer, holding humanity and the Earth in love.
🧭 FREE GUIDE Universal Life Mastery (ULM) Guide What Suzanne has learned from end-of-life patients about how to live more fully.
👉 Download here: https://doulagivers.com/ulm-guide/
💬 QUESTION FOR YOU
Where in your life are you being invited to choose love over fear right now?
#AskADeathDoula #LifeCafe #Doulagivers #ChooseLove #EndOfLifeWisdom #ConsciousLiving #NervousSystem #Presence #LoveOverFear